User blog comment:DYBAD/Love Without Selfishness/@comment-4993190-20130705125445/@comment-4867780-20130706024818

So it seems. Though whether we choose to be involved in a relation or not, there is always a price. It may be suffering because of love of suffering because of loneliness, but we will definitely suffer either way. So in the end, it all depends on which is the easiest to bear with for each person.