User blog comment:A Living Person/5th Character Sheet/@comment-24350816-20141221003818/@comment-4867780-20141224064635

Isn't the desperate need to find an answer the best proof of its absence ?

I read somewhere that love is built on admiration, and we can only love someone we have a strong positive opinion about. That's notably why love naturally decreases after a while of living together, as the more we get to know someone, the less admirable they turn out to be. That, and the hormonal cocktail gradually subsiding.