User blog comment:Dragon-Fox 7/Character Sheet/@comment-5651818-20181130002034/@comment-4867780-20181130053116

The qualities that generate love and admiration in some people generate just as much envy and bitterness in others, depending on where they individually stand and what they personally have to gain/lose from it.

A man beloved by most women will be hated by most men, because he creates an impossible standard in the women's heart they can never live up to, with said women flocking to him at their expense (the reversed version is every bit as true).

So unless the person is bi and everyone else is bi too, the most ideal of all will still be hated by a great many people ^ ^;