User blog comment:Imouto-tan/Ilona/@comment-4867780-20160904214802/@comment-26362471-20160904231424

Indeed she did have a sweet rack on her :D

Most of her male "host" weren't symbiotic, but rather she was a whisper in their ears telling what to do and giving her powers (and in some cases a child) to them as a gift.

Yes, she -is- mentally female from her long history of having female host, but others refer to her using "it" and "they" not including Cynthia and Kiara due to how close they are to her.